The tools we wish
someone had handed us.
Six working tools for the parts nobody explains — what it actually costs, what happens when, what to ask, and who to trust.
The cost calculator, with real numbers.
Every line is a real cost with a researched range — agency fees, carrier compensation, the insurance line most people find out about far too late. Toggle what applies to you and watch the total move.
Six tools, plus the library.
Cost Calculator
Every line item of a real journey — agency fees, carrier compensation, the insurance line most people find out about too late — with researched low, likely and high ranges you can toggle to your own path.
Journey Timeline
What actually happens, in what order, and how long each stage really takes. Surrogacy, IVF, donation and fertility preservation each mapped end to end.
Question Builder
The questions to take into a consult with an agency, clinic, attorney, escrow company or donor agency — including the ones that are uncomfortable to ask and most worth asking.
Vetting Checklist
There is no licensing body for surrogacy agencies or escrow companies in most of the US. This is the diligence, red flags marked, ready to print and work through provider by provider.
Benefits Letter
Most employer fertility benefits are technically inclusive and practically unusable. This writes the ask — the letter that gets your coverage reconsidered.
Glossary
GC, PGT-A, escrow, U=U. Plain-language definitions for the vocabulary everyone assumes you already know, searchable as you go.
Resource Library
The Tiny Book of Family Building, panel recordings and templates. New material lands here first — members see everything before it goes anywhere else.
Everything, for $249 a year.
Or $29 a month. Cancel any time — your access runs to the end of the term you paid for.
Members also get one free 15-minute intro call a year, and member rates on every Navigator Session.